And, I hope you didn't think I was bashing the MLC forum, either. Support is every where on this board!!
Quote: I remember feeling the change in July -- it was actually when I was on my 2.5 wk holiday with my kids. H seemed different on the cel. I began to notice an awful lot of "inswings" towards the marriage. Up to this point, they seemed to only occur at the time of the full moon (weird, eh?) not weird at all as last week was a full moon and also a month ago when H poked out..hmmmm . I "knew" the tides were changing, but when I returned from holidays, almost immediately h took children with him and OW on 10 day holiday to farm (the details are in my earlier thread -- it really upset me). Needless to say, I figured that I must have read the situation wrong. However, while they were away, h called me one morning at 4 a.m. and we chatted. That phone call confirmed that I was not crazy, though I had no idea how long his journey to exit the tunnel would take. As it turned out, the rest of the summer he was on an "inswing" almost all the time -- I kept very clear track of it in my daytimer. At the end of the summer, on Sept long weekend, my h hit rock bottom, and I found out shortly after that. It was then that I "knew" so it's just not me ,something is happening, I'm going with that feeling it was only a matter of time.
Okay, I guess, once again I was looking for an ANSWER to my question and it has been more or less answered. That it's a slow process and what I am seeing is him coming out of the tunnel and that the OW isn't going to just disappear overnight.
Quote: Continue to stay with your gut instinct that h will be back. If your gut says so, then I believe your gut is correct!
Yes I've always believed in "gut" feelings. My "gut" feelings have always worked in my favor as far as getting the great jobs that I have had!!! I just recently checked out a book from the library on the subject of intiution, also.
Right now I am totally back off from H. I don't call him unless absolutely necessary, he doesn't call me everyday like he used to either. I am giving him space and time to come through and out of his tunnel.
Preachy? I'll take this kind of preaching any day!!
