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Interesting about DCA.

As long as it is working, it is much better than the alternative.

I wonder what Peter (gForce) has to say about this.

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Kerry,
I dont care what Peter or FIB are saying (sorry guys!!). If it works for us, I am happy. Time will tell. So far, so GREAT!

I am completely drained and tired tonight. I think I cant handle any emotional moments, good or bad, right now. I do prefer the good ones.
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Get some much deserved rest now K.

Curious though....did you tell your H about the progress?


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Originally Posted By: Kalni
I dont care what Peter or FIB are saying (sorry guys!!). If it works for us, I am happy. Time will tell. So far, so GREAT!


Agreed!
Congratulations on the good news!


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Well, the lymhnodes show 32% reduction (size). Cancer markers dropped by 24 points. And no visible side effects. And, today, he looks 10 years younger after he realised how happy me and my bro are...

I got some news on stbxh, I will post later...
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((((((Kalni)))))))

I am happy to hear about your father.... that's really good news!

I think the sun is out again.....

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Those numbers are great K! It is amazing how much our loved ones improve when they know we are doing well, isn't it?

I'm on pins and needles about stbxh....why are you referring to him that way instead of H? hmmmmmm........did he step in the proverbial pile of doo doo again?


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I havent gone back to H yet, have I? It must have been a mistake. Well, not too much, I just have been crying alot these last 2 days and he "got in my way" if you know what I mean.

He is scheduling to see her. He says he will tell her he will not aswner to any of her attempts to contact him and that he thinks it's inappropriate to keep asking him for favors (now she wants a ticket for Beyonce and a referal for a job!!!).

He said "baby, I know I hurt you, I will NOT hurt you again, please let me prove it to you. I am only doing this for you, because you said it's important, for me, it's over, I am done, for good, she has nothing on me, and especially now that you know, I really feel completely detached from her."

But he agreed that she is making up excuses to send him emails etc and that making it clear to her, may help.

There was more, need to put the kids to bed ...
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Well, he's saying all the right things. Not sure why it's so hard to schedule a quit chat with her, but he's always had a crazy schedule.

Kiss your littles and enjoy the quiet time with them.

You never went back to H that I'm aware of. I went back a few pages to make sure but I think I was inferring it into your using He and him all the time instead of stbx.


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It is probably ethical to let her future employer know that she needs to work in an environment where there are no married guys.

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