Just found out my own daughter is going thru a MLC/WAW dont really know what it is.....nothing out of the ordinary in her life....she keeps saying she has been a Mom and wife since she was 16...... And of course another man is involved......I am in a state of shock.After all she saw me go thru...... Keep her in yall's prayers. I have told her over and over God first...then family and then job......falling on deaf ears for sure never heard a word I told her....
Child support paperwork in the works...it has been 2 months since I filed with the Tx atty.generals office it just takes so damn long I have no regets about doing that, but what good is it going to do me when he doesn't work at all....I wont hold my breath.....but really what good is that going to do me??? I think they live off of her income Just wondering any ideas what judges do on those occasions when the MLC'er has no job???? He was always a good provider pre MLC now he is a lazy lazy person.....how sad
IRMA, I can tell you exactly what the Judge has in mind. The child still has to eat, even if he has no job. The child must have clothing, even if he has no job. The child must go to school, even if he has no job. The child still needs necessities, even if he has no job. In short, the court will require him to pay a certain amount even if he doesn't have a job. It is HIS RESPONSIBILITY to give you the money that the child needs. If he doen't pay you, he goes to jail, short and sweet. Texas has a reputation for not being tolerant when it comes to legal matters. I think you have an obligation to your child to do this. If you stand or don't stand, that is between you and your H. Care of your child and him doing his share is for your child. If you don't secure his obligation, that is x amount of dollars your child doesn't have. MLC or not, job or not, kids have to be provided for and if he refuses, he DESERVES to go to jail.
I live in Addison TX. I just noticed you live in Dallas so I thought I would say hi.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Hi to you as well ........yes Addison is only 20minutes or so away I live in Mckinney......sorry to find you here, but it is good place to be......lots of good people here.....will read up on your situation
I don't think you want to read my sitch. I made every DBing mistake in the book. I am trying to turn all of that around now. I have been at this for over a year now.
There are a couple of people on the boards from Dallas. FaithfulH is moving here and I have hung out with him some.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
How I wish I was a young as you........I was having the time of my life with my husband ....we were at a very good place at that time......things change so very quickly.... My husband entered the tunnell in Jan 07 been there since.he now lives with the O/W 900 miles away..... I am so much better than I was way back when life is good again...even without him......he is a stranger to me right now... I have never seen my husband do the things he does now.....lies lies and more lies, self centered,wont call our daughter because I guess he thinks she should call first......... TRULY MESSED UP INDIVIDUALS
I don't think age has much to do with it. I may be younger, but I am still in the same situation. My W lies and lies and lies also. I can't count the number of lies I have caught her in.
I think you are doing the right thing by continuing to pray and change who you are. It is all any of us can really do. I pray multiple times a day especially with the holidays coming. What I wouldn't give for a Christmas miracle of my M being restored.
Anyways, I am not sure why your H thinks his D should call him first. Who is the parent here? It sounds like he still has some growing and maturing to do.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Yes he does......if you saw my husband right now he is one of those big guys on a harley with all the clothes that go with it, the long pony tailed hair...really rough looking so not like my husband that left us over 2 yrs ago...... gained so much wait....doesnt work any more....guess they are living off of her income...she has a degree in graphic design.....he is doing absoluetly nothing all day except play mafia wars on Facebook. This is the prize she has won........ A very lazy man A liar A man who has abandoned his family A man who cheats on his wife. A man who doesnt even help support his own child Wow what a prize...........but he is..... MY PRIZE AND ALWAYS WILL BE.... Just standing and being still
