He's acting like a baby because you won't give him 50 quid? He has no maturity. Ridiculous.
Julia, you want the D now right? This is definitely what you want? If so, then itemize all the joint bills you paid completely on your own, tell him that you'll give him the 50 quid when he pays his half of all of those bills. Tell him you need a form signed and will meet him next Tuesday/Thursday (whichever is best for you) at such and such place. Don't give him options anymore....give him orders. This man is inconceivably arrogant and thoughtless.
I know....harsh, right? I'm sitting in a hospital with my mom and watching her suffer and thinking of all the times I never stood up for myself. I guess I'm trying to push that to you so that you will stand up for yourself right now.
Let us know what ended up happening tonight.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!