Each of our sitch are different. We all know what has not been working in our relationships. Our recent behavior was not working. We need to change OUR behavior until we find what stops pushing spouse away and then continue changes that draws our spouse closer. Human nature is predictable. One person starts to leave and the other starts to chase. The one leaving is in control of the dynamics. MsR2C stepped away, and I had to step away faster to gain control of the dynamics of the R. All our changes are mysterious to our significant other, and that is attractive.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
