My W & I are in the process of trying to figure out our custody situation with our 4 year old S. She's the one moving out (her choice) and right now it looks like I'll have him Wed-Sat and she'll have him Sat-Tues. (We'll split Saturdays.)
I hate to break up his routine & pull him out of the only home he's ever known...but we both want to see him & a 50/50 split was the best we could do.
I also have concerns about her having a house key once she moves out. I don't think it's right & I'll make sure that doesn't happen. She's already mentioned moving all her "big" items & starting to sleep at her new apt...then coming back to the house for her "smaller", non-essential items as time permits. Personally, I don't want her in the house once she moves out. Not trying to be a jerk but why should I make this any easier on her? It's her choice to break up our family.
WGU...I think you're handling things the right way. I wish my W saw the importance of our S staying in his home during the week.
Last edited by etrain; 10/22/0904:55 PM.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
