Thought I was over this

[K4D]

If she is calling you to chit chat, that is a positive sign I think. My W does not call to chit chat. I wish she would. That gives you a chance to shine every time she calls. What I would do is just not answer every time she calls. Delay sometimes. It keeps her wondering what you are up to.

She wouldn't be calling to chit chat if she had no interest in you.

Kevin