So why are you holding all the income responsiblity?
She's not happy because of you. She wants a divorce. She wants space. She doesn't want to do the Retro post-session work.
Brutal reality time:
She needs to get a real job. You need to discuss selling the house. Discuss how to split things and how the money might work in a divorce.
You are owning too many of her issues. That's why 180s work. Give her issues back, they are her problems now.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
