Sorry, she isn't his girlfriend. They have never been involved physically and have only been around eachother in groups, like softball, or eating out with the softball team. You see one of my good friends is on the team and I have known her for as long as I have known my husband. He told me he thought he might have feelings for her but didn't know for sure. She is married and is gone on tour with Trans Siberian Orchestra until mid January. Apparently her husband drinks a lot and is really arrogant, this is what my husband and my friend have observed hanging around with them. My husband and this girl have a lot in common, they both like photography, like the same music, are interested in computers (she does web design and my husband is a Systems Engineer). They have common personalities and he has told me that she is really fun to hang out with, and that her husband treats her badly when they are around in their groups. But my husband also if we get into a argument always makes sure I am ok and listens to me when about 3 weeks ago he couldn’t have cared less how I felt. I don’t know what to think about any of this, I am confused.