Well, I think you need to respect her wishes for space. Take the time to work on yourself and children. Remember to GAL.
The wedding band thing would be troubling to me too, but don't try to mind read. I would say you need to take a step back and watch what happens. If she isn't slipping back into her old ways I would say that is a great sign. The meds will take a while to have a full affect, so expect her to go through some different stages.
