Personally, I would keep the 'This isn't working for me' in reserve. If she responds positively right off the bat, no need for the bludgeon, ya know? If she balks, *then* you can get more serious.

Last edited by Dia; 10/22/09 03:19 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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