I'm thinking that if you told your X that she is not invited to thanksgiving dinner with your family that it would actually work more in your favor for causing her to think that things are changing.
Well, the thing is that D11 pushed for us spending the holidays together and I invited W and the girls to come over for dinner for Thanksgiving. W offered to make a turkey. If I come back now and say nevermind, you aren't invited, it would make me look flip floppish I think.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...