That is rough with parents being put in an uncomfortable situation. Just this last weekend, my X came into my house when my mom was there. It had been about 2 years since they had seen each other. They only said hi and bye. And my X started nagging on me when she saw a tub of cotton candy in my house and that I was giving the kids a late lunch. She is on the edge of losing her privelege of being invited in my home.
I'm thinking that if you told your X that she is not invited to thanksgiving dinner with your family that it would actually work more in your favor for causing her to think that things are changing.
BTW... The boys should win easily on Thanksgiving as they are playing the lowly Raiders.
