Well thanks for all your advice. I need to clarify something though, he wasn't the one that said we could try it for 3 months, I asked him if we could see where our marriage was going in that time frame.
Hi Katie,
Well, I'm confused, because I was going by this, which was in your original post:
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So she is gone for 3 months on a tour that she helps with and he said we could try the 3 months out and see where it takes us
I took that to mean that your husband is basically saying "Well, my girlfriend's going to be unavailable to me for 3 months, so you and I might as well use the time to test our marriage and see if we're still compatible."