h been back home 1 and a half years but struggling

[Laurie]

Dear Rysmom,
I am glad you are taking some classes and they help you personally. Trying to get back to the person you are and like to be is an essential piece of DB'g.

What has happened specificallly that prompted you to come back to the DB boards? Was it your FIL's death or something else?

Also, can you help me understand what that loss might mean for your H? Were they close? Did they share a lot of time together? Was his father's death expected or a surprise? Having an understanding of how your H might be grieving at this time, could be helpful in setting up realistic expectations for your goals.

Take care, Laurie