As you may know if you have read this thread my wife has ongoing medical issues. The current most important involves severe stomach pains, vomiting blood etc. We have no dianosis at this time. Since nothing will ease the pain without causing side effects that will worsen other conditions, a while ago I suggested she try smoking marijuana - I even got some for her. Neither of us had used illegal drugs in almost 20 years.
She has smoked it the odd time in the last year or so. Tuesday night she was really troubled and decided to smoke some. I wound up smoking with her. While it did relieve her pain (and make her a little stoned) it really made me stoned. Bottom line - my wife and I had sex for the first time in approx. 4 months. I absolutely initiated it and at first she was not interested, but then became a willing participant. However, after she wound up crying. That could have been from the drugs or ????. I tried to talk to her about it, but since I was still feeling the affects, I didn't think it was a good time to press at all. And in my state, was able to remember at least on db principle - not to talk when she does not want to.
Yesterday I had to leave home very early and we texted a couple times during the day. One of her texts said "no drugs for you". I think it was meant in a somewhat humorous way. Last night she seemed fine and was not rude to me or angry with me. In fact, she brought dinner home for me from the restaraunt she works in. She never brought up the subject, so either did I.
Tonight she will be out of town for work and Fridays we usually don't see each other until very late. So..we probably won't really see each other until Saturday.
My question is - do I bring this situation up at all or just take it for granted that we both know it was a "mistake" of sorts fueled by drug use?Do I wait for her to say something?
