A MC will not work if she is in a EA/PA with OM unfortunately. I feel that you have been really dependent on your W to make you happy with the "I just want a hug" wimpy statement that you made. Time to really shock her by doing something fun that she thinks you would not do, like go out dancing maybe this Friday. I can see her saying, "Your doing what?" I just feel like getting out there, with all that is going on, I need to have some fun, see ya!
Then go out and actualy have some fun!
Do you see where I am getting, create some mystery about you, let her say, who the hell is this guy, and is he seeing someone else? Jealosy in a woman can be mistaken for love for a man.