A lot of points were made that became very valid as I thought about them....it wasn't just "you need to tell him because you cheated on him", although that is a good enough reason. Sometimes I just need to hear it being said in many ways and in a kind, supportive way.
In other words, MY advice doesn't really help any.
Puppy
lol Your advice, mixed with everyone else's advice, was perfect! I need your advice, always, Pup. I look for it, expect it, and hope that I will always get it. There are too many similarities in our situations.