Wife out till 3;30 in the morning

[JTJ]

Steve,

I've prepared myself for the worst when it comes to the potential of an affair. I've been doing a good job of not asking what she is up to and when she says hey I was out with friends I take it as maybe maybe not. I just don't like being told hey I'm going out with my friends these nights and so you will need to watch the kids.

One GF is married I don't know her husband and don't know what he thinks. One GF is divorced and is looking for the next $$$ man and other girlfriend is getting married. I do know that the girls get together every month or two and rent a hotel room downtown so they don't have to drive home. My wife goes out but does come home.

Wife just left house without saying two words to me this morning.

I'm working out every couple of days at the gym. Going out every couple of weeks with friends. I travel a fair bit. So it leaves little time out side of kids sporting events, scouts etc.

I should have saved the discussion till later. My fault and I should have validated more.

Should I call her and apologise for not listening and validating?
JJ