It's sad to think of what the D is doing to our poor kids! Hopefully, things will get less stressful after the D I hope.
Well, so I went to D9's school yesterday. Her one teacher was in a meeting, but I talked to her Math/Science teacher. The projects X kept the info on were supposed to be monthly projects. I never got the info on the science project and D9 told me they worked on it Sunday and Monday night (it was due this Tuesday). And the only reason I think that happened is b/c I emailed X Sun. night after dropping off the kids and told him we spent all weekend on the book report and he was going to have to do the science project with her due Tues. (plus I hadn't been given the info to do it anyway even if we had the time).
And the teacher tells me she's been sending home incomplete math sheets (from their in-class time) that D9 needs to finish (b/c she takes longer to write than other kids), and X has sent none of them back, so D9 has a 53-F on her math homework grade!
She said she was so glad I emailed her, b/c she was wondering what to do about that, and she didn't know I wasn't getting them at all. He's been getting her grades each week too (a spreadsheet it looked like) and never questioned the teacher about the 53??? I was so po'd at him; b/c I think part of the problem is he spends so much time grilling the kids and focusing on my parenting, he doesn't do his own share!!!
So the teacher though is going to give me it today to start working on and says D9 can do every other problem, probably a lot to catch up on. And her homeroom teacher said she will start giving me a copy of the info that gets sent home to X. So hopefully everything will be ok the rest of the year.
