One thing i notice, is there seems to be alot of bickering going back and forth in text messages, esp. about her going out. thats got to stop immediately. I have always taught instant messenging and text messaging was for flirting and ineuendos not for serious conversation. maybe there is something wrong with me but i am very hesitant to put anything serious down in writing or try to resolve an argument with emoticons and butchered sentences. I think you need to start ignoring them and cutting any important ones short with I will call you in a while and definitely do not initiate any or bother to use it to talk about the single life she is leading.