Hope and heartache

[awest1217]

I am so sorry to hear that. Of course there is still hope, but now is the time for you to really truly focus on you. The more you focus on your the more strength you will have to deal with W, and spend more quality time with Ds. You just need to keep being nice when she is talking and just stay kind yet like you said detached. She may not come around, but at least you know you tried and you are coming out a better man from all of this.

With everything you really need to focus on yourself because when you do have the girls, you need to be there for them. They are going to have the hardest time with this. I see that with my own S and he is only 2. They understand a little more about what is happening, but they will need a lot of reassurance, and you can't give it if you don't take care of yourself.

Once again I am sorry and I will pray for your strength.