DID XH M OW or not??

[peacetoday]

Had a huge blowout with xh at work yeaterday
regarding ofcourse money

xh regresses to childish tantrums
threatening to walk out
not doing the days work and jepordizing the business
I do not really know the best way to deal with him because if I do not set firm strong boundries regarding the spending of business money which I am carsfully dispersing, xh will try to spend on anything
so anytime a new boundry is set..there is a potential for a tantrum
I have 2 children and I dont want a third

xh brought up his wife..He said why did I tell her that xh mother did X
I said I never said that..Your Wife is Lying to you
then it escalated from that
I said It doesnt surprize me she wants you to be angry with me
..she F**ks M men..cant really be too trustwortyhy
XH said nothing on her behalf
which surprized me
In the past--if I said anything about her, he would defend her
Now I have tried to be careful during this time to never bring her up but every now and agin my truth pours out
I dont want xh back
I would like a friendship
But Im not sure that can happen with us working together because xh wants to spend any business money he can and I am like a guard and have no option here
yesterdays fight took everything out of me
it was hard looking in XH eyes
they look red
he looked worn
hands trmbling
not rational
like a 2 year old man who appears to be very mentally unstable
I felt scared and sorry for him
and also seems like a hopeless situation working with him as these explosions may continue although not daily..monthly
I wioll pray
thansk fro reading
peace
so I will continue to pray