Originally Posted By: Arwen_in_NJ
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WHAT part of "don't believe anything they say" don't you understand??? ;-)


I do get it. If I'm honest it was the fact that my D's mother said she looked happy. But then that was probably just the OM fix.

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If you're hanging on every word she says to someone else, you are NOT focusing on yourself. Let it go.


Trying hard to let go and it's just not working, if I'm honest.

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BTW, the WAS will rewrite the history of the marriage to justify what they are doing. Be prepared for it.


I've noticed that. How many stories that are lies do I need to hear as to why we split in the first place.

Last edited by P17; 10/22/09 11:25 AM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
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