Quote: I can't put my finger on it, but somethings shifting in H.
My words exactly:with my H too. But I feel like my H is shifting to wanting to have a R with me in some way. I can't put my finger on it, but i feel like I'm on the edge of something and don't know what!
Sounds like your H ran back into the tunnel. He seems very confused; saying he wanted to pack his $hit up, but then brough over the meat! He is very confused right now. You will have to watch what you say and do. I'm not saying that you have to be a doormat, either. You really sent his head spinning, by setting him straight Sat. . He wants to pick a fight with you, so don't let him. Compliment him when he comes over. Tell him how much you appreciate what he does. Honey must drip from your tongue. It totally confusses them. Makes them wonder what's up! He is feeling guilty; big time! Doesn't want you to do things for him; that is what my H does, it's GUILT! He is still seeing OW? Are you sure? My H is still seeing his OW. But I noticed something last night. 1) H hasn't shaved for a while 2) H has put on weight; in the stomach; it was a big difference since 10 days ago!!?? 3) When his cell phone rang, he seemed VERY nervous, scared $h^tless, acxtually. But, then he relaxed when he saw who it was. 4) When he got done with the call; now this is REALLY strange! He said it was his nephew;Brett. I said I know. He looked up in shock and said how did you know? I said "I could tell by your side of the conversation! I asked how his nephew was and he told me that they were expecting again. 5) H wanted a hug before he left, usually I have to iniatate the hug. So you see I'm confused, also! When he came he drove in like he was coming home from work; that was strange. He went and parked where he used to... He seemed very relaxed, except when his cell rang. Even our D told me later; that dad looked scared that it might be the OW. And I told him about the thing with our Middle D. Wow, he actually seemed interested He said I was lucky that I wasn't naked. I said I don't sleep in the nude anymore, do you? He said once in a while. I think he was fishing; wondering if I was having sex with someone, what a bozo, he is the one breaking vows, not me! The whole thing left me wondering what the hay! Take Care Deb
. He wants to pick a fight with you, so don't let him. Compliment him when he comes over. Tell him how much you appreciate what he does. Honey must drip from your tongue. It totally confusses them. Makes them wonder what's up! He is feeling guilty; big time! Doesn't want you to do things for him; that is what my H does, it's GUILT!
He said I was lucky that I wasn't naked. I said I don't sleep in the nude anymore, do you? He said once in a while. I think he was fishing; wondering if I was having sex with someone, what a bozo, he is the one breaking vows, not me!
