I think that it's great to write anything you feel like here - safe and secure, amongst friends.
Glad that you see a difference in H's text - a bit warmer/less frosty, I'm thinking? I'm guessing that the signature is to do with the sale of your business - are you resolved/OK with that now? If your M were to continue, would the business be something that would have kept going??
As for H's birthday, I think that you have to do exactly what you are comfortable with. It's like all things here - we ask for ideas, suggestions and advice but ultimately, we have to do what we think suits us the best ...
Let us know, won't you?!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"