Tonight W asked again if I would take D13. A few days ago she mentioned the friendship with a male friend was over. She seems stressed. I was wondering if it might be time to suggest beginning reconciliation, if on a limited scale.

If not should I try to be consoling? or should I let things lie for now?

Is this a sign of things to come?

Should I initiate some contact?

Last edited by Mark Evolving; 10/22/09 09:42 AM.
~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)