Maybe you're right, he's a controller and I read that they like to make you feel like you don't know what you're talking about, meaning if you say something, they'll say you didn't say it to try to make you feel like you didn't say it...does that make sense, but he used to do that, made me doubt myself even though I knew what I had said or told him.
Well the bear meat is on our freezer...so why did he say he was coming to pack up the rest of his s*** as he likes to refer to the stuff he hasn't moved out yet, but I was there.
Even though he was trying to push my buttons with his words later in the evening, actions leading up to that were saying something different.
The swing broke, we looked around for a bolt and couldn't find it. I sat with S as he was playing in sandbox, H got up and went into the house, a few minutes later came out and went into back garage and came back out with a bolt to fix the swing.
He seemed really down last night, also. Not many smiles unless he was playing with son...I just love that kid and so does H.
H seems soo sad, even when he left after putting son down to sleep he seemed sad. I said is S asleep already, H just said yeah, no emotion. H said I'll probably be over Thursday night. I said can you pick son up, he said he didn't know he's had to work late the last couple of nights. So I said are you still coming over and he said yes, I just don't know if I can pick up son. I said okay and then goodbye and H left.
H also mentioned the fact that I don't ask him what he's doing? I told him I didn't want to know what he's doing, meaning anything with OW, I don't want to know. Besides if I really wanted to know what he was doing, etc. I could find out..his local hangout and guys that he works with like to gossip. I then said I don't need to know or something like that and H says sarcastically "that's right!"
I can't put my finger on it, but somethings shifting in H.
