I have been thinking of a scene from Grey' Anatomy, but they happen in most medical shows. Where they are doing CPR but the person on the table is "gone".
But b/c of a promise the doc made, an emotional connection, or something, the doctor keeps trying and trying to revive them. Finally the other people in the OR have to convince him to let it go...
So when I think of turning toward Dan for anything, I remind myself that metaphorically, our M is dead on the table and I need to let it go
