Can I save my marriage?

[Lll54]

You are right! Thank you Trent. You have made some very valid points. He is putting me through the ringer. Tonight is night one of him staying here to see the boys while they are sick and I mentioned in general conversation that I have a sore lower back. And he offered to give me a back rub!!!! What???!!! This is not separation in my eyes...once again leading me on only to walk away in a few days. Ugh..I need to practice this whole detachment thing I'm just scared to death. And don't know where to start and where to get the strength...