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WHAT part of "don't believe anything they say" don't you understand??? ;-)

If you're hanging on every word she says to someone else, you are NOT focusing on yourself. Let it go.

BTW, the WAS will rewrite the history of the marriage to justify what they are doing. Be prepared for it.

Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed