Well, no it isn't just he and I..... The party is held at friends of ours house (actually the guy was my Ex's friend for years) We actually met at he and his wife's wedding! They have a son that ours likes to play with and since it is My Ex's weekend with our s, well, I guess he had mentioned to me that he planned on taking s to this party and asked if I'd be interested in going with my daughter also (she's 15). (He is really the only positive male role model she's ever had in her life).
I told him I would be interested and that I am just trying to do the right thing when it comes to our boy since he likes us being together. I guess I said that so he wouldn't feel like I was misinterpreting anything again, and I refuse to let myself. I think if he ever invites me anywhere that our s is not going to be, then that will be something I can think of as more than just a Mom tagging along for the sake of our boy right?
My niece just got married and they want to have a very informal party at a hall, and guess who's got that weekend with our s? I do, so I plan on asking my Ex if he'd like to go..I know everyone would love to see him as well.
Ya know, it's kind of cool, my Ex will text me or email me for some of my old recipes sometimes. He knows how much I love to cook, and he knows I love when people like my food! So even that makes me feel good.
He told me recently that he learned a lot about parenting from me and that's why he's a better father than he would have been if he wasn't a step dad to my 2 girls. I actually have noticed that he is a great Dad to our s and it's heartwarming to see.
Well, kind of randomly talking here...sorry, getting back to the original question. It's not just my Ex and I, but I don't think he had to invite me either...so IDK?..
