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[awest1217]

H came over out of no where. His phone died. We had been talking all summer about switching companies because he uses all of our shared minutes because we are on a family plan. We discussed it and got the plan he wants, he got a new phone, and so did I. The best part is he actually got a family plan. All summer he wanted to just get a single plan, just in case, and this time he went straight for a family plan without me saying anything. I am going to take that as a small step. He got a bunch of books to read about making decisions and being happy. He says he does not want to make the decisions alone, but really discuss them and both have an opinion, but feel like he has the final say, but wants my input. He even text me saying sweet dreams. Has not happened in a while.

S is still having a hard time at night and I have not told H. I am going to wait to see if he asks then I will just tell him the truth. Things are going well. I hope he really is going to get help and read the books and be home within a couple of weeks.