I like your advice of collecting myself before reacting and somehow I do feel in a position of power right now. I am now armed with evidence and don't have to deal with any gaslamping by W. I have been encumbered in my efforts to truly DB by doubting my hunches about the reality of the OM (you know, the whole am I crazy thing!) BTW, I have been following your sitch as well, I definitely wish you the best!
