Newbie with almost WAW - Need Advice

[chatterbug]

Confronting the OM and working together.... Not a good scene. One where your going to need to keep professional. As you need your job at a time like this. If I was you I would expose to HR. But again this depends on your plan of action.

What is your plan of action for tonight and the next 2 or 3 days.

Are you going to expose and confront.... Or confront and do no exposure ? These are items you keep from your WAS. They are your weapons to use. Use them wisely.

I would recommend that you really work out your plan. 1 more day is not going to hurt. It may help you in the long run. You are at the position of strength. You can control this situation.

I do know that I would not reveal my sources or show my evidence.

You need to work on your script. For you will be receiving a script from the land of the fog. It is going to just destroy you on the inside for now.... Prepare for war. For this a conversation you will take to your grave. You will always remember the conversation. So make the most of it. I ended up hugging at the end of mine and we were both crying.... It took 3 hours and when it was over she left the house and called OM. It was the beginning of being completely broken. But they say you need to fall down to get up. Good luck. My heart goes out to you.
So prepare and go to war with a plan. Remember cheaters lie. So be like a duck. Water off the back. Reinvention is a justification for guilt. And the guilt will be hidden in plain view. If your smart you will use this time to learn what he is giving her that you cannot.