I have been depressed for a couple of years which has pushed my W away a bit (I have to accept mt blame first). She never told me of the extent of her hurt and just proceeded into an A. She started taking a language course earlier this year and met up with a guy from work who is a native speaker for "practice". She initially told me she was doing this but eventually she became evasive about it (EA at that point I'm sure). I eventually confronted her about my concerns and she blew up on me about how everything between us was so bad. A few months ago, she came home asking about how much text messages cost and said she had been texting her mother (Her phone was on my plan). I was able to check the bill and see that the texts were to this guy that she was spending time with and not her mother.
She denied an A and said that he was just a friend and we have been in the separation holding pattern for three months. She eventually admitted to being with someone but that it was over. She said there is nothing going on now. My evidence is from last week so I know this is BS.
Here I am now and she just walked in so gotta go for now - Thx for the advice.
