Of course I am disappointed and sad, aren't we all on some level? The big picture is moving forward in a way that is positive for my kids, all things considered. They still think we will be getting back together. And I haven't decided if/when/what to tell them. I suppose nothing until the divorce goes through. Do you actually stop and say, "Hey, kids, we are divorced?" The last we told them was that daddy was moving out but we were going to try and figure out how we could all be together again...
