I do feel I am detaching now a bit better. I actually have things I am looking forward to doing now going forward. I have lots to do, and been busy so that may be 'hiding' some of my feelings a bit, but that is not a bad thing either, I think.
Just this morning getting up for work later than I have in 9 years, and cutting my commute down to half what it used to be was a positive move. I'll take those little positives right now, and hope to build them into bigger ones as I progress.
IWITW,
Just like some of the more fortunate folks on here who are "piecing" their Ms back together, we LBSs have to do the same with ourselves and our lives. Keeping busy with things to keep yourself preoccupied is good, so is making plans for the future along with taking stock of all of the blessings in your life. Cutting down your commute time by half is huge.
I agree with you regarding meeting some of these people on the forums in person. They ought to put on a convention for all of us.
Well gotta go. I'll check in later.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________