Well here is my reply. I think it is not to wishy washy. My buddy who is staying was having an EA on his wife... long distance relationship... I told him it was no excuse and I showed him what it was like to feel as the bs. When I first found out I blew my top at him and then I told him what was happening with me. I then made a point of talking to him every other day to show what it does to the person. It really woke him up and he is now going to try to repair his marriage. WAS knows about his affair as I told her during the plan A days.... I am writing this as a friend.

This took emails and then 2 phone calls. Was caught on the 2nd phone call and said no to talking and yes to come over in the evening when I am out.

But replying to the email from Monday today. Which I have just left in draft mode and have not sent. Will do that in the morning.

WAS wrote:
> Hey Cutter,
>
> I'd like to stop by the house on Sunday to pick up some more stuff. Let me know if you'll be around to go over the plans for the house.
> I'm due in the city at 3pm and assume you have a game on Sunday night. If you're not available, I'll come when you're at the game, but let me know what works for you.
>
> I left a message at the house too.
>
> Thanks,
> WAS

My reply

Hi WAS.

Just a heads up.
Buddy asked if he could stay here for a week or two while he gets his stuff in order to move back to florida. Currently he is staying in a hotel. I said he can stay here in the spare bedroom downstairs. His dog may or may not be here. I am unsure of that, as I cannot understand 40% of what he says. Must be a Polish to Irish lost in translation thing. I told Buddy that you would be coming over on Sunday. Buddy said he would leave the home that night to give you, your privacy if you would like that.

Take Care.

Cutter.


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