Thanks June....I like the c'est la vie concept. It has helped me get out of the victim mind-set and to remember that this is not the worst thing that can happen to a person. I am heartened by success stories, but trying to stay realistic and remember that things might not work out and focus on those things I need to do in either scenario (e.g., take care of myself, find joy, be a stronger more self-sufficient person, be the best dad I can be, etc.)
