It occurred to me during my ordeal that being detached is similar to a R with a friend, which is very different than a R with a spouse.
Friend: "A person who is always glad to see you and has no immediate plans for your improvement"
A friend is someone who will come bail you out of jail. But a TRUE friend is someone who's sitting right beside you in the cell saying "Damn, that was fun!"
Me 47 W 44 D16, D13 T 23yrs M 20yrs WAW/MLC + Male EA "BFF from H.S." = Misery