"- You're right I am avoiding you, I really don't want to be around you anymore, I'm tired of you: you're immature, boring & unattractive and I need less of that in my life. Another thing, please don't speak for me, I want my kids, I'm their father, we arranged & you agreed to have them 1 week each, this is your week, deal with it. Next week when I have them I will deal with it and I won't be bothering you for help trust me. As for money, you have money, you're saving up for a trip to vegas and you're buying a gift for a baby shower - don't bother me about money - if you can do those things, you can take care of the kids. You shouldn't of had kids if you didn't want to be a parent. Not my problem, I enjoy being a parent.
Tell the kids daddy loves them and can't wait to see them next week.
Thank you!"
- and that's it.
Isn't that kind of harsh? I already know what kind of reaction I'm going to get out of that. Are you sure?
Harsh?!
Are you $hitting me?
She is harsh to you.
Hello, am I reading what you're posting?!
It's ok to stand up for yourself, in fact it's a requirement.
Being civil is fine but sometimes you have to add a little something to it.
She doesn't have any issue sticking it to you, because she knows she can, she steps over that boundary regularly and you let her.
