Changes must be made for you.

He will notice them if your shut your mouth and live your life as if he wasn't a part of it.

With this being said, it is also important to be loving and kind at all times whilst maintaining your boundaries.

Long distance DB-ing does work, and it can actually be fun.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.