Heh. I wasn't pointing the finger at her, big guy. See puppy's post. Just be sure that you ask or don't ask based on what you *really* need/want, not fear of making waves.
Yes. I know this is something I still need work on. It is true that at times I am afraid that I could upset her to the point that she would walk out again. I know this should not concern me, but it is very difficult attitude for me to take when I really do want things to work out between us.