Originally Posted By: Kettricken
Heh. I wasn't pointing the finger at her, big guy. See puppy's post. Just be sure that you ask or don't ask based on what you *really* need/want, not fear of making waves.


Yes. I know this is something I still need work on. It is true that at times I am afraid that I could upset her to the point that she would walk out again. I know this should not concern me, but it is very difficult attitude for me to take when I really do want things to work out between us.

Last edited by tristan; 10/21/09 09:45 PM.

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1