Thanks dday. I need to re-read the "act as if" section of DR.
Back to the day-to-day. Yesterday was uneventful. I worked a little late. W actually called me to ask if she & our S should have dinner themselves or wait for me. Then she texted me a little while later to remind me about my doctor's appt this morning. I'm doing very well at not contacting her during the day...no emails, texts, etc.
I came home with just enough time to eat dinner before I was right back out the door to play basketball w/ friends. W took our S to her mother's house while I was out. She & I barely saw each other...no S discussion.
Hopefully today will go just as smoothly.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
Just had my first follow-up appt with my doctor since putting me on Zoloft 2 weeks ago. The meds seem to be working. My mind isn't "spinning" nearly as much as it was a week or so ago. Only negative is that I lost 7 more LBS since my last appt 13 days ago.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
W taking the day off work on Friday to clean her apt & do some furniture shopping. There are certain moments when my sitch hits me...and this is one of them.
Looks like she'll be moved out just in time for my birthday (Nov 1). What a wonderful b-day present...loneliness.
Then comes our anniversary on Dec 1 and the holidays shortly after that. This is going to be rough.
I'm going to "act as if" whenever she's around...but it will be just that...an act.
Last edited by etrain; 10/21/0906:39 PM.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09