Hi Lost, Im not sure how I would approach the anniversary. Maybe just a text message, or a simple email. Much more than that and you will start to seem desperate.
What have your 180's been? Have you started to GAL? These are things that will be the basis of your divorce busting arsenal. Set some goals, some for yourself, and some for your M. Something like I will lose 10lbs by dec, or H will end his A by jan.
Most importantly, go dark, completely and totally dark. Only talk to him about your child, and if he calls, mysteriously have something to do so you are too busy to be on the phone with him. Are you friends with any of his coworkers wives, or the coworkers themselves? I am a big, big supporter of exposing their A's, this sort of lack of integrity and judgment is not very good for a cops career. Do his parents know why he moved out?
The A will end, I can almost guarantee it, and it will leave devestation is its wake. You have to do whatever you can for yourself to make sure that you are well positioned when it does.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
