When you express an interest in meeting up with me and then not let me know what is happening or leave it to the very last minute to make plans.
it makes meI feel like you are messing me and my time around. disrespected (or use what feeling best decribes how you feel.) (Don't use the word you, takes on the connotation you are blaming him, this is all about behavior.)
I want to know when and where we are going to meet in a timely manner, 48 hrs notice.
If we cannot make firm plans in a repectful time period then I don't see that we can continue to meet up.
If you continue to disrespect my time then I will decline all further invitations. It would make me sad to do this but I don't see another option, my time is precious.
Have you ever watched the Dog Whisperer? Very effective especially when dealing with men.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.