The fact is it doesn't work because he isn't here to begin with so he isn't reacting - I just worry he may react when he finds out...Divorce being the greatest fear though not sure why because abandonment is so much easier to deal with? HaHa
No, I stay completely business like when I have to talk to him (and he hates it).
Originally Posted By: Coach
Now, if he is trying to blame you for being upset and discount your feelings then he is at fault. Then it's his problem not yours.
This is how he acts...It is like he is looking for any reason to not have to interact with me or the boys and if he can't find one, he makes crap up.
Hard to set boundries when he isn't living here and we only communicate via text maybe once a week, if I am lucky a phone call every 2 weeks... How is he supposed to know I am a better person if he isn't around to see it? How is he going to know I still love him, forgive him and want our marriage to work if he can't see the changes? How can he know I am GAL if he doesn't live near me? This is what I am having a hard time with... I know the 180/GAL are for me and my peace of mind however aren't they there for our partners to see the changes as well?
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
