S12 is doing much better. One of the kids on our team was diagnosed with the swine flu.
As far as making yourself the better option, you have to be natural. For my situation, my wife and I have the same sense of humor so when I get around her I am light and have fun, but it can't be forced or they will see that as manipulation. When I talk to her on the phone I stay upbeat. To be honest there are times where I know I'm going to see her or talk to her and I feel like I'm going to throw up.
How did you act around him when you were dating? That's the person that attracted him in the beginning. Be that person.
