I will be completely honest... I don't do anything without first wondering how he may react to it -
So how did that work?
Doesn't matter how he will react if it is good for you. So what if he gets mad, what's he going to do divorce you?
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If he won't speak to me for a few days because our last conversation somthing was said in a tone he didn't appreciate etc..
Did you say something that was hurtful, nasty or mean-spirited? If so apologise fir your behavior. Tell him you understand and say your sorry. Now, if he is trying to blame you for being upset and discount your feelings then he is at fault. Then it's his problem not yours.
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Now I need to figure out how to honor myself...
Love yourself, take care of yourself - mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally. Set boundaries so others see how much you love yourself.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
